The mastering, however, usually comes after a certain amount of wallowing I think, at least it does for me. Well maybe it’s not wallowing per se, but at least I have to spend time in the well of sorrows until I can muster the courage and stamina to master the pain. And for chronic sufferers such as I, I don’t think we really ever master it as much as we eventually learn how to cope with it again and again and again.
**Ranunculus photo taken by Natalie; text box via Quotes App; collage created by Natalie
You said it well, Natalie. I hear you, and do relate.
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Thanks
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I agree, you cannot let it take control of you otherwise you will live a miserable life.
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So true and deal with it daily with my back. It controls me for a while and then I say enough then get up to move around.
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Pain is a reminder of why to never give up.
The Lord will always hold your hand, and maybe much more will happen.
To give up is only to invite worse.
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Wow N this is beautiful and true. I’ve never had pain like that till I broken my back last year. Now I spend most of my days trying to ease the pain. I do think resting and building strength is important to healing and getting strong at least for me. I agree with you. Lovely photo 💛🌼
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Thanks MM! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with pain now! It’s not easy❣😘
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We are human and designed to pay attention to acute pain, so a little wallowing is understandable. I can only imagine what it’s like to cope with the kind of chronic pain you’ve described, but coping again and again and again seems to capture the essence of it. I wish and pray for you to have more moments of successful coping, comfort and positive distraction. ❤
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Thank you JoAnna. I’ll be 75 in six months and the last time I remember having pain free days. So 50 years of pain has not been easy! It’s harder at times than others because ones grows so weary of it. Thanks for your kind words and prayers❣😘
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God bless you well, Natalie. ❤
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Meditation helps to a certain point, but I need medical intervention to live a “normal” life which is not pain free. I have empathy for those living with pain.
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I’ll be 75 in six months and the last time I remember having pain free days I was 25. So 50 years of pain has not been easy. It’s harder at times than others because ones grows so weary of it.
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I maintain back heath these days with the aid of injections at the spine and wellness clinic. Most times they last 6-8 months or more. I feel for you and living in pain. You seem to surround yourself with such beauty and lovely words. You are in my prayers, Natalie.
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Thank you for the prayers❣ Keepimg myself
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Continued thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you and for you as well❣😘
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I enjoy your blog. It is a kind of thought for the day or prayer. However one views it, it is quite delightful! Have a great week. 🙂
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Thanks so much Mary❣😘
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My pleasure.
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Keeping myself surrounded with beauty and lovely words helps me cope. Hugs, blessings, and prayers for you too❣😘🙏
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I am humbled by your kind words and prayers. May you manage the day with courage and fortitude. ^__^
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Thank your so much! I pray you were able to do the same❌⭕
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Indeed Thank you.
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You’re welcome‼💞
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You are welcome.
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So like you I Have empathy for anyone who lives with pain. Hugs, Natalie ❤
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Hugs and hearts sent your way, lovely lady.
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Thanks so much‼❌⭕🌹
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My pleasure. 🙂
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Reblogged this on Purplerays.
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Thanks for the reblog❣😘
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Good points Natalie!
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Thank you again Lyn❣😘
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Personal pain should be brief and proper tin time. However, we should always be open the pain of the world. The oceans are deep and there are friends down there that need a hand.
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Would that it were! And I agree that we should be aware and attempt to respond to the suffering if other‼️😊
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I look forward to looking at more of your posts. They are sweet. Let us hope that time comes very soon.
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Thank you😊
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