The universe is full of radiant
suggestion…over and over in the butterfly
we see the idea of transcendence.
In the forest we see not the inert
but the aspiring. In water that departs forever
and forever returns, we experience eternity.
~Mary Oliver
Is there some “voice” you turn to when your heart and soul needs a spark, something to satiate a vague longing, or to get your creative juices flowing, or something to make you feel acutely alive, or when you need some wise rumination or conjecture that transcends the routine and the mundane commentaries. I know that Scripture and the teachings of Jesus can do that, but as a mortal human being, I also need the take on such things from other mortal humans. I need wise musings by kindred spirits who voice things that comfort me and help me feel less alone and isolated. I know, I know; I have a loving husband and a loving family and friends, but don’t you ever long for someone who knows you better than anyone else deep down inside in those places you, seldom if ever, bring to the surface. You know, the things that touch you profoundly and you’re not entirely sure why or where it comes from, and you need another’s thoughts to help you understand what you feel and how intensely you feel it. I’ve never been anything except a daughter, a wife, and a mother, but there is a Natalie way down in there that I’m not sure I could put into words so that they could understand how or what it feels like to be the me of me, not the one who has always tried to live up to the expectations of others, but the one who has always wondered what it would have been like to strike out on her own and follow her own dreams. This is not a complaint for I have been truly blessed all my life. Nor does it mean that I’ve never faced great sorrow or loss or coped with chronic pain. Everyone has “crosses to bear,” but we don’t have to let such things define and/or decide who we are! Perhaps that’s why literature has always been a great source of illumination for me because I believe writer’s are always digging down into that same kind of well and attempting to bring to the surface what they find therein.
The most regretful people on earth
are those who felt the call to creative work,
who felt their own creative power
restive and uprising, and gave to it
neither power no time.
~Mary Oliver
Many writers fit the bill that I described above, and I quote them frequently, but it has only been in the last few years that I have found my forever go-to first person for such things. This remarkable woman is a modern-day, living poet, and I have bought to date everything she has published for I don’t think I’ve ever read works by another that touch me the way she does and explain what I feel inside any better than she. I have shared some of her works before as well as in this post, and in the coming days I’m going to post quite a few more for I’ve been “hungry” again of late and as always have found “nourishing food” in her words. I hope you to enjoy her musings and offerings.
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees for a
hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal
of your body love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours,
and I will tell you mine.
~Mary Oliver
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. ~James 1:5 ✝
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Reblogged this on The Militant Negro™.
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Thank you😊❤️
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We are so blessed
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Yes we are❤️❤️❤️
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Beautiful thoughts dear friend. ❤
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Thank you V❣️😘
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I once heard it put this way….those times when we feel a longing…such as a keen sense of homesickness despite actually being in our home or with our family…yet we still feel the longing as it remains unabated…it is actually a longing for our true Home– that of being with God as Father…
It is the urging of the Holy Spirit to seek His presence……
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This is true❣️😘
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Oh Natalie, yes. ❤ I find much comfort in Sarah Ban Breathnach and Dr. Brene Brown..both these women strike a note deep inside. I also find comfort in our global blogging village. ❤ for you. Xxx
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Thanks for inte
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Introducing me to Dr. Brown! I live my blogging community too❣️😘
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❤ lovely Natalie. xX
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Thank you Jame❣️😊
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Beautiful, Natalie! ❤ xo
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Thanks Bette❣️😘
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You plus Mary Oliver make me feel like I’m not so crazy after all. 🙂 ❤ Powerful affirmation.
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Well then we’re in great company! And I personally think a little crazy is a good thing❣️😘🌹
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🙂 ❤
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Reblogged this on Loving Me, Too and commented:
“…what it feels like to be the me of me, not the one who has always tried to live up to the expectations of others, but the one who has always wondered what it would have been like to strike out on her own and follow her own dreams.” Natalie Scarberry
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Thanks so much JoAnna❣️😘😘😘🌹
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You are so welcome!
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Oh my Mary it’s been so long since I’ve read and absorbed your words. I’ve missed them so much, reading this was like you crawled into my mind and wrote what was hidden there. ❤️
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Oh my that’s EXACTLY the way I feel about her! She does crawl around in my mind and heart in the most uncanny ways. ❤️❤️❤️
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Yes it’s an empathic connection that I feel when I read Mary’s words. ❤️
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Me too for sure😊❤️
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She’s a blessing in the blogging world. 😊💕
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She’s a blessing anywhere she is😊❤️
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Amen. 💕
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👍😊❤️
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