Okay missy, who is control of your thoughts you or that person who hurt you? And are you willing to let others hurt you again and again with the same hurtful action? Or was once more than enough? If I handed you a hot potato and it burned liked hell would you keep going over and picking it up again and again? And whose head is it that’s plays it over again and again? Yours or theirs? Do
you think they’re going to do that too? Zee, it happened! It’s over! It’s done! Now walk away and don’t carry that hurt with you and let it poison your spirit! Things are going to hurt us in this life and we have to move on so we don’t miss the good stuff that blesses us! Love, N ❌⭕️❌⭕️😘
It’s not that you want to keep going back for more hurt, of course not. As you said once or twice is enough. But it doesn’t change the fact that it hurts that you gave so much to a person who didn’t think twice before putting it all in dirt. You are right, you have to get over it at one point. Because you are just hurting yourself and nothing else. I hope to heal soon. Thank you for your kind words of advice !❤️
Oh of course there’s a necessary grieving process! So cry and grieve as long as you need as that is the way we heal. But then we have to let go and move on. I pray you heal soon too dear Zee❣🌹😘
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Very good question to ponder. I would say the one who keeps reliving the past.
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Yes it is👍😊
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Love the painting. It’s more hurtful to yourself.
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Yes it is‼️😊
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Precisely the perspective that should make me stop it.
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Thanks for the chuckle JoAnna❣😘
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How can one help it Natalie…? If you’ve been wronged by the person you loved, you can’t help but play it all in your head 😦
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Okay missy, who is control of your thoughts you or that person who hurt you? And are you willing to let others hurt you again and again with the same hurtful action? Or was once more than enough? If I handed you a hot potato and it burned liked hell would you keep going over and picking it up again and again? And whose head is it that’s plays it over again and again? Yours or theirs? Do
you think they’re going to do that too? Zee, it happened! It’s over! It’s done! Now walk away and don’t carry that hurt with you and let it poison your spirit! Things are going to hurt us in this life and we have to move on so we don’t miss the good stuff that blesses us! Love, N ❌⭕️❌⭕️😘
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It’s not that you want to keep going back for more hurt, of course not. As you said once or twice is enough. But it doesn’t change the fact that it hurts that you gave so much to a person who didn’t think twice before putting it all in dirt. You are right, you have to get over it at one point. Because you are just hurting yourself and nothing else. I hope to heal soon. Thank you for your kind words of advice !❤️
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Oh of course there’s a necessary grieving process! So cry and grieve as long as you need as that is the way we heal. But then we have to let go and move on. I pray you heal soon too dear Zee❣🌹😘
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I pray the same. Thanks Natalie for this ❣
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My pleasure dear Zee❣😘❌⭕️
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